Sepuluh Fakta Tentang Mimpi Basah

Assalamua’laikum. Wb. Wr Guntalers, Ada yang belum mimpi basah, ada yang sudah tapi belum tahu fakta-fakta unik tentang Wet Dreams, Coba disimak Artikel dibawah ini.

1. Wet dreams are normal, they are believed to happen when the body is not getting release from the hormonal build up of the teen years or sudden "dry spells" in sexually active individuals.
2. Girls do get wet dreams, but they are far more common and much messier in guys.
3. Masturbation can, but won't always, put a stop to frequent wet dreams.
4. Some experts theorize that wet dreams are one of the many sub conscious ways that the body handles stress - they seem to happen more frequently in teens and young adults because this age group is thought to be under extreme stress.
5. Wet dreams are not drug induced.
6. Wet dreams do not signal a sexual abnormality or mean you are sexually deviant.
7. Wet dreams have nothing to do with being gay or straight, the type of wet dreams you have in no way represent your sexuality.
8. Wet dreams about taboo subjects like; incest, animals, rape, sex with a superior or elder, public sex, group sex, and homosexuality are common and do not have anything to do with your waking sexual preferences (it doesn't mean you secretly want to do these things).
9. There is no reason to ever feel guilty about having a wet dream, they are subconscious and can not be easily controlled or manipulated.
10. Many people have wet dreams and don't even know it is happening, for guys the morning mess is often the only evidence and for girls they can go unnoticed - for this reason they may be more common in girls than is currently believed (under reporting may be the real reason girls seem to have them less often).

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Guntalers, Merasa Sulit Untuk Menghindari Kebiasaan Masturbasi

Assalamua'laikum. Wr. Wb Guntalers.

Masturbasi dalam kehidupan seks Konvensional merupakan hal wajar. Namun jika kebiasaan itu membuat orang menjadi kecanduan sangatlah berbahaya.

Nah, bagi Anda sendiri atau bagi anda yang memiliki pasangan pecinta masturbasi, Atau teman dan saudara pencinta masturbasi baik pria atau wanita kini saatnya Anda membantu si dia menghentikan kebiasaan yang berakibat buruk pada alat vitalnya dengan cara-cara ringan di bawah ini.

Tekad bulat untuk berhenti

Syarat pertama agar bisa menghilangkan kebiasaan onani adalah harus punya tekad kuat dan keinginan berhenti masturbasi. Alias niat super kuat dari diri sendiri untuk berhenti. Tanamkan ini pada mereka sehalus mungkin, dengan cara yang mereka bisa memahaminya. Gunakanlah kata-kata ringan

Jika hanya keinginan saja tanpa diikuti tekad kuat, tidak akan bisa membuat Anda berhenti dari godaan melakukan masturbasi Jadi pertama, Anda harus punya tekad berhenti dan janji untuk tidak melakukannya lagi.

Hindari semua material pornografi

Film porno, bacaan-bacaan pornografi, gambar-gambar seksi akan memicu sistem syaraf untuk mencari pemuasan secara seksual.

Onani adalah satu-satunya pelampiasan seks paling aman yang dikenal syaraf Anda. Semakin Anda bertahan semakin kuat godaan Anda melakukan onani. Karena itu sebisa mungkin hindari material-material pornografi yang akan mengingatkan Anda dengan masturbasi dan rasa nikmat.

Olah raga teratur

Olah raga teratur membuat energi terlepas dan membuat badan lelah di malam hari. Badan yang lelah akan membuat Anda cepat tertidur dan tidak berpikir yang aneh-aneh di kamar.

Olah raga juga membuat pikiran jadi segar dan membuat sistem syaraf menjadi positif. Hal-hal negatif seperti pikiran porno tidak akan hinggap di kepala yang segar.

Jangan suka menyendiri

Berusalah untuk menghindari sendirian di daerah-daerah rawan seperti kamar mandi dan kamar tidur. Jika ada pikiran melakukan masturbasi, segera lakukan sesuatu untuk mengalihkan pikiran. Ini sesuatu yang sangat penting dalam semua usaha penghentian kebiasaan Onani ini. Jadi berusahalah aktif dan kreatif.

Pikiran negatif jangan dipelihara. Percayalah, pikiran untuk masturbasi itu hanya sekilas saja, muncul karena syaraf yang sudah terbiasa dengan kegiatan masturbasi Anda.

Menjauh dari website porno

Jika Anda punya akses internet di rumah, kemungkinan godaan membuka situs porno akan selalu muncul, terutama di malam hari ketika suasana rumah sudah sepi.

Sebisa mungkin blok situs porno dari komputer anda. Sudah banyak piranti lunak anti pornografi yang bisa membantu Anda menyingkirkan semua situs-situs porno tersebut. Semoga bermanfaat Guntalers, terutama bagi adik-adik yang masih remaja.

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Change of Voice

What Causes My Voice to Change?

At puberty, guys' bodies begin producing a lot of the hormonetestosterone (pronounced: tes-tahs-tuh-rone), which causes changes in several parts of the body, including the voice. For starters, a guy's larynx (pronounced: lar-inks), also known as the voice box, grows bigger.

The larynx, which is located in the throat at the top of the trachea(pronounced: tray-kee-ah) or windpipe, is like a hollow tube about 2 inches (5 centimeters) high. The larynx is responsible for creating the sound of your voice.

Stretched across your larynx are two muscles, your vocal cords, which are kind of like rubber bands. When you breathe, your vocal cords relax against the walls of the larynx and completely open to allow air to get in and out of your lungs. When you speak, though, your vocal cords close together by stretching across the larynx. Air from your lungs is then forced out between your vocal cords, causing them to vibrate and produce the tone of your voice.

When you lower your voice, your vocal cords are relaxed and more floppy. When you make your voice higher, your vocal cords tighten. (You can notice this difference in how they feel as you adjust your speech.)

As your larynx grows, your vocal cords grow longer and thicker. Also, your facial bones begin to grow. Cavities in the sinuses, the nose, and the back of the throat grow bigger, creating more space in the face that gives your voice more room to echo. All of these factors cause your voice to get deeper.

Think of a guitar. When a thin string is plucked, it vibrates and produces a high-sounding tone. When a thicker string is plucked, it sounds much deeper when it vibrates. That's kind of what happens to your voice. Before your growth spurt, your larynx is relatively small and your vocal cords are relatively thin. So your voice is high and kid-like. But as bones, cartilage, and vocal cords grow, your voice starts to sound like an adult's.

Along with all the other changes in your body, you might notice that your throat area looks a little different. For guys, when the larynx grows bigger, it tilts to a different angle inside the neck. Part of it sticks out in the part of the neck at the front of the throat and forms the Adam's apple. For girls, the larynx also grows bigger but not as much as a guy's. That's why girls don't have Adam's apples.

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The Importance of Talking,

Do People Choose Their Sexual Orientation?

Most medical professionals, including organizations such as the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Psychological Association, believe that sexual orientation involves a complex mixture of biology, psychology, and environmental factors. A person's genes and inborn hormonal factors may play a role as well. These medical professionals believe that — in most cases — sexual orientation, whatever its causes, is not simply chosen.

Not everyone agrees. Some believe that individuals can choose who they are attracted to — and that people who are gay have chosen to be attracted to people of the same gender. No matter what someone's sexual orientation is, in some cases it may be affected by the life experiences that person has had.

There are lots of opinions and stereotypes about sexual orientation, though, and some of these can be hurtful to people of all orientations. For example, having a more "feminine" appearance or interest does not mean that a guy is gay. And having a more "masculine" appearance doesn't mean a girl is lesbian. As with most things, making assumptions just based on looks can lead to the wrong conclusion.

The Importance of Talking

No matter what someone's sexual orientation is, learning about sexuality and relationships can be difficult. It can help to talk to someone about the confusing feelings that go with growing up, perhaps a parent or other family member, a close friend or sibling, or a school counselor. It's not always easy to find somebody to talk to, but many people find that confiding in someone they trust and feel close to, even if they're not completely sure how that person will react, turns out to be a positive experience.

In many communities, resources such as youth groups composed of teens who are facing similar issues can provide opportunities for people to talk to others who understand. Psychologists, psychiatrists, family doctors, and trained counselors can help teens cope — confidentially and privately — with the difficult feelings that go with their developing sexuality. These experts also can help teens find ways to deal with any peer pressure, harassment, and bullying they may face.

Whether gay, straight, bisexual, or just not sure, almost all teens have questions about physically maturing and about sexual health (for example, avoiding STDs). It's important to find a doctor or health professional to discuss these issues with — someone who can provide reliable health advice.

Although sexual feelings and behavior are important parts of human development, there are still many unanswered questions about human sexuality. Researchers are constantly learning new information, and undoubtedly people will know more about sexual orientation in the coming years.

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Talking About Your's Orientation

It's a natural part of life to have sexual feelings. As people pass from childhood, through adolescence, to adulthood, their sexual feelings develop and change.

Adolescence Is a Time of Change

During the teen years, sexual feelings are awakened in new ways because of the hormonal and physical changes of puberty. These changes involve both the body and the mind, and teens may wonder about new — and often intense — sexual feelings.

It takes time for many people to understand who they are and who they're becoming. Part of that understanding includes a person's sexual feelings and attractions.

The term sexual orientation refers to the gender (that is, male or female) to which a person is attracted. There are several types of sexual orientation that are commonly described:

Heterosexual. People who are heterosexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of the opposite sex: Heterosexual males are attracted to females, and heterosexual females are attracted to males. Heterosexuals are sometimes called "straight."

Homosexual. People who are homosexual are romantically and physically attracted to people of the same sex: Females who are attracted to other females are lesbian; males who are attracted to other males are often known as gay. (The term gay is sometimes also used to describe homosexual individuals of either gender.)

Bisexual. People who are bisexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of both sexes.

Teens — both guys and girls — often find themselves having sexual thoughts and attractions. For some, these feelings and thoughts can be intense — and even confusing or disturbing. That may be especially true for people who are having romantic or sexual thoughts about someone who is the same sex they are. "What does that mean," they might think. "Am I gay?"

Thinking sexually about both the same sex and the opposite sex is quite common as people sort through their emerging sexual feelings. This type of imagining about people of the same or opposite sex doesn't necessarily mean that a person fits into a particular type of sexual orientation.

Some teens may also experiment with sexual experiences, including those with members of the same sex, during the years they are exploring their own sexuality. These experiences, by themselves, do not necessarily mean that a person is gay or straight.

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Lyme Disease, Did you know ?

What Is Lyme Disease?

Lyme disease is an infection caused by the bacterium Borrelia burgdorferi. This bacterium is usually found in animals like mice and deer. It can be carried to people from these animals by Ixodesticks (known as black-legged or deer ticks). These ticks pick upBorrelia burgdorferi when they bite infected animals and then infect humans by biting them and passing the bacteria into the person's bloodstream.

Sound gross? Maybe. But you can be sure that you won't witness this process: It's very hard to see the ticks themselves. Immature ticks, or nymphs, are about the size of a poppy seed. Adult ticks are about the size of a sesame seed.

Because the ticks are hard to find, it helps to be aware of the symptoms of Lyme disease. It's easy to overlook a tick bite. Many people who get Lyme disease don't remember being bitten. The good news is that most tick bites don't result in Lyme disease.

What Are the Signs and Symptoms and When Do They Appear?

Lyme disease can affect different body systems, such as the nervous system, joints, skin, and heart. The symptoms of Lyme disease are often described as happening in three stages. Not everyone experiences all of these stages, though:

1.      Often, the first sign of infection is a circular rash. This rash appears within 1-2 weeks of infection but may develop up to 30 days after the tick bite. The rash often has a characteristic "bull's-eye" appearance, with a central red spot surrounded by clear skin that is ringed by an expanding red rash. It may also appear as an expanding ring of solid redness. It may be warm to the touch and is usually not painful or itchy. The bull's-eye rash may be more difficult to see on people with darker skin tones, where it may take on a bruise-like appearance.

The rash usually resolves in about a month. Although this rash is considered typical of Lyme disease, many people never develop it.

2.      Along with the rash, a person may experience flu-like symptoms such as swollen lymph nodes, fatigue, headache, and muscle aches. Left untreated, symptoms of the initial illness may go away on their own. But in some people, the infection can spread to other parts of the body. Symptoms of this stage of Lyme disease usually appear within several weeks after the tick bite, even in someone who has not developed the initial rash. The person may feel very tired and unwell, or may have more areas of rash that aren't at the site of the bite.

Lyme disease can affect the heart, leading to an irregular heart rhythm or chest pain. It can spread to the nervous system, causing facial paralysis (Bell's palsy) or tingling and numbness in the arms and legs. It can start to cause headaches and neck stiffness, which may be a sign of meningitis. Swelling and pain in the large joints can also occur.

3.      The last stage of Lyme disease can occur if the early stages of the disease were not detected or appropriately treated. Symptoms of late Lyme disease can appear any time from weeks to years after an infectious tick bite. They may include arthritis, particularly in the knees, and memory lapses (this last symptom happens mainly to adults and is rare in kids and teens).

Having such a wide range of symptoms can make Lyme disease difficult for doctors to diagnose. Fortunately, there's a blood test that looks for evidence of the body's reaction to Lyme disease.

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Wet Dream

"Wet Dream" — Something that can be embarrassing and confusing to teen guys, but is completely normal. A wet dream is also known as a nocturnal emission. Nocturnal means "at night" and emission means "discharge." This makes sense because a wet dream is when semen (the fluid containing sperm) is discharged from the penis during ejaculation while a guy's asleep. Usually wet dreams occur during dreams that have sexual images. Sometimes guys wake up from a wet dream, but sometimes they sleep through it.

Wet dreams begin during puberty when the body starts making more testosterone, the major male hormone. Although some guys may feel embarrassed or even guilty about having wet dreams, they can't be controlled and you can't stop them from happening — most guys experience them at some point during puberty and even sometimes as adults.

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Early Detection For Prostate Cancer

Pemeriksaan disarankan bagi pria 50 tahun ke atas atau pria dengan riwayat prostat.

Pria yang memasuki usia lanjut berisiko tinggi mengidap kanker prostat. Jumlah kejadian kanker prostat dalam 10 tahun terakhir terus meningkat di Asia termasuk di Indonesia.

Data dari Rumah Sakit Cipto Mangunkusumo (RSCM) dan Rumah Sakit Dharmais menyebutkan, jumlah penderita penyakit ini meningkat hampir tiga kali lipat dalam 10 tahun terakhir. Sehingga, kanker prostat dijuluki kanker penyebab kematian pria terbesar ketiga.

Pada tahapan awal, kanker prostat tidak menunjukkan gejala khas. Namun, karena usia lanjut merupakan faktor risiko kanker prostat, maka pria usia lanjut dianjurkan untuk melakukan pemeriksaan colok dubur atau Digital Rectal Examination (DRE).

Pemeriksaan sebagai salah satu cara untuk mendeteksi adanya benjolan keras yang bentuknya tidak beraturan setiap tahun. Hal ini sebagai upaya dari deteksi dini keberadaan penyakit ini.

Anjuran ini, sangat disarankan bagi pria usia di atas 50 tahun. Atau, bisa juga dilakukan sejak usia 40 tahun, terutama bagi pria yang memiliki riwayat kanker prostat dalam keluarga.

Ada beberapa gejala kanker prostat. Diantaranya, kesulitan buang air kecil atau menahannya, aliran air seni lemah atau terganggu, terbangun malam hari untuk buang air kecil, perasaan nyeri atau terbakar saat buang air kecil. Adanya darah pada air seni atau air mani, sulit ereksi serta nyeri saat ejakulasi merupakan gejala lain gangguan prostat. Bila mengalaminya, dianjurkan segera memeriksakan diri ke dokter.

Apabila telanjur terkena kanker prostat, pengobatan disesuaikan dengan stadium yang diderita. Umumnya, operasi dilakukan bagi penderita dengan usia harapan hidup lebih dari 10 tahun.

Sementara penderita dengan usia harapan hidup 5- 10 tahun akan diberikan radioterapi. Pasien dengan harapan hidup kurang dari 5 tahun, atau bila terdapat kontraindikasi operasi maupun radioterapi, maka akan diberikan kemoterapi.

Tindakan kemoterapi pada pengobatan kanker prostat biasanya dilakukan apabila kanker tersebut telah resisten terhadap terapi pengobatan lainnya seperti misalnya terapi hormone.

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